I have this tendency of checking Goodreads on a regular. I mean, I may not post and interact as much as I’d like to, but I do check my author profile, check how my ratings are, what other peeps are reading, etc.
So today was just like any other day except that I sat freezing my behind off sitting in my car as I waited for my mother to finish her doctor’s appointment. I hate waiting rooms so I’d rather stay outside. Anyhow, by the time I got home, it was dark, I was tired and hungry, and I laid down watching some reality TV on my computer.
Then came the part where I go and check out any happenings on Goodreads and I noticed my overall ratings went down. Upon further investigation, I realized it was from a recent rating of Those Four Letter Words.
Damn, my first one star.
Okay, it’s not my first one star. Been there, done that. But it’s my first one star rating for Those Four Letter Words.
Okay, yes, I felt a momentary sting of pain in my chest. I’m only human and that’s a natural reaction to disappointment. I guess I’m not as tough as I portray myself to be around my family and friends. But my writing is that part of me which is vulnerable, and yes I do keep it close to my heart–it took years to actually admit to my friends that I even write books!
I’m over that momentary sting. Of course not everyone is going to like my books, that’s a given. Everyone is and should be entitled to their own opinions. And it’s not like I’ve never given a one star review or hated a book or character for this reason or that. Hate is such a strong word, isn’t it? But a difference of opinions is what makes the world go round.
C’est la vie.
But the one star review gave me food for thought, some raw truths. The life of an author has its peaks and its lows.
Peak: self-published my first book.
Low: said book gets pirated on multiple sites.
Peak: people are actually buying my books. Me? This Canadian chick that no one knows.
Low: barely any ebook sales to buy a coffee. Let’s not even talk about print sales.
Peak: cover reveal for Jaded Little Lies happens and people love the cover!
Low: Those Four Letter Words gets its first one star.
That’s just naming a few.
Besides being my birthday next month, December is the anniversary of my first book, Dahlia, being published. That’s three years ago. I’ve come to learn more about myself as a writer and as a person over these past three years.
I’m trying to figure out what I want to do as opposed to do what I’m expected to do with my life. I’ve been going through some life changes and that isn’t stopping anytime soon as this rate. Mind you, it’s not like this one star rating gave me a revelation (although it did give me something to write about).
Starting out, I had this dream of being this amazing writer and everyone would buy my books. That if I worked hard at it (I took a year off to focus on writing and publishing) I could have that dream of being a full-time writer, doing what I love to do. That one thing that makes me feel happy. A wish that many writers have.
A wish that might actually never come true, unfortunately.
I forgot to mention a peak in that makeshift list above.
Peak: meeting other writers and bloggers (well, one blogger in particular who shares my passion for the Walking Dead) that I can seriously say I’ve connected with. These are people that I’ve never even met yet I consider my friends because they totally understand me and relate to me without even meeting me. I just want to say thank you for being a part of my life as an indie writer as it can definitely be tricky.
So in conclusion (I hope I’m not giving you an essay vibe here but I’m paying tribute to the lovely Jade in Those Four Letters Words who has a way with words), I do wonder what the future has in store for me. Writing isn’t something that’s going to disappear from my life. It’s just how the writing will be implemented. As a full-time writer? I don’t know. It’s a nice dream and I’ll keep dreaming.
So how will I deal with my one star rating? Well, the rest of the night will be of me working on Jaded Little Lies and watching Supernatural to dull the slight pain I still have.
Just kidding 😉
The pain part, not the Supernatural part. I do love me some Dean. And Sam did just give a shout out to Canada. He referenced a Canadian trucker, but still.